Simplify Heart and Home

We all have 24 hrs. in a Day

2011-09-22T14:15:00.000-06:00

We all have 24 hours in a day; no more, no less. We can choose to spend that amount of time in frivolous pursuits or in developing our gifts and talents, loving and serving others, making our home, family, neighborhood, community or world, a better place to live, beautifying our surroundings etc.

Most of us also have limited resources. We can choose to be wise in our spending and heed the scriptural reminder "do not spend money for that which is of no worth, nor your labor for that which cannot satisfy" or....we can do the opposite and experience the fruits of those choices.

A young woman recently reminded the youth that 'when you pick up one end of the stick you also pick up the other end.' There are consequences to our choices; good or bad.

Things OWN YOU!

2011-04-30T09:31:00.000-06:00

The more things you own --- the more things own you!

Simplify and ....Let Go. Free Yourself from Clutter and Too Much Stuff! :)

Filling Our Buckets (and....our kids')

2011-04-29T13:58:00.000-06:00

Years ago we were letting other things take precedence over our 'emotional buckets' and family relationships were running a bit dry. So, we decided to jump start a new way of thinking.

We purchased small plastic buckets for each family member to hang on the wall. Each week we had to put at least one item into each others' buckets; such as short thank you note, poem, compliment, treat, new toothbrush, small toy, photo of fun memory or coupon for night out.

It worked well for a while and helped us refocus our thoughts on serving and loving one another while we looked out for each others' needs.

What's For Dinner?

2011-04-27T13:59:00.005-06:00

A common question from hungry kids' returning from school is "What's For Dinner"?

I solved this problem by posting a list of 20 favorite dinners on the fridge. We also have a chore chart that includes who is making dinner each night.

The list has solved the problem of who and what will be included in the evening meal as well as what groceries are needed for the week.

Utensil Drawer Dilemma

2011-04-26T14:03:00.000-06:00

To avoid the moving back and forth of the utensil holder in a pull-out drawer, I attached velcro strips to the front of the holder as well as the actual drawer. Now, the utensil holder stays-put in front and other less-used items are at the back.

Simplifying....

2010-04-24T19:11:00.000-06:00

In my quest to simplify I'm combining my blogging efforts. To this point I've had several different ones on various topics. Now I'm doing one main one and would love to have you come for a visit!

I'm now at SIMPLY MORMON blog and hope to use that as an umbrella for all the things I'm thinking and feeling. I'm sure I'll put some info. about Simplifying and Organizing in there as it's a quest for us all!

Upcoming Seminar "Living in the Last Days"

2010-04-22T17:05:00.003-06:00

Join with us on Sat., May 22, 2010, at the Logan Tabernacle in Logan, Utah. It's a FREE SEMINAR on "Living in the Last Days" entitled "To Prepare My People". Click HERE for more information.

We'll have 4 excellent speakers from 1:00-5:30 p.m. including Scott Bradley, Farley Anderson, Arlene K. Butler and Janet Ashcroft Summit.

All are invited. LDS Content will be presented.

Thanks,
Heidi Garvin

Putting First Things First...

2010-01-21T19:40:00.002-07:00

It's been a while since I've blogged on here. Apparently I've been spending my time living instead of writing about it. :)

We've had a lot going on and some things have taken precedence over blogging. Life is like that. Different chapters and seasons bring unique challenges and growth. Time and experience have a way of helping us grow and progress --- even if we don't want to. :)

Blogging has been enjoyable and has met some of my needs of self-expression. It's even been therapeutic at times.

One of the quests of life is to put 'first things first'. I believe that the Spirit guides us in doing that. He knows much better than we do our gifts and talents, challenges and limitations. Those who feel to 'press forward' just for the name of it may be missing other items of more importance at the time.

My belief is that as we follow our guide/conscience/gut etc. we'll be led to do the things that matter most 'first'.

Breath of Heaven

2009-11-24T08:59:00.002-07:00

Thankfully many of us are able to enjoy the blessings of warm home and food during these next few weeks. Often our hearts are turned to remembering all we have to be grateful for and thinking of others who may be in need. Sometimes the 'most wonderful' times of the year can also be the most challenging for different reasons.

Those who have much may be challenged with trying to figure out what to do with their abundance. Those who are alone and lonely may long for any type of companionship or friendship. Those who struggle, who have lost jobs or incomes may wonder how to 'celebrate' without abundance.

Having been in many of these situations over the past 10 yrs. as a single-parent, I know all-too-well some of the challenges that this time of year can present. I also know that I am much more aware of the struggles and heartaches of others because of what I have experienced myself. The thing that underlies all of our desires is a feeling of peace and love and harmony. This blessing is available to us all; the 'breath of heaven' if you wish. His love and life gave us all the opportunity to find comfort amidst trials, peace amongst trauma, and comfort amidst challenges. Without this hope many of us would not know what to do nor where to turn.

On several occassions I've sung these words
"Breath of Heaven, hold me together, be forever near me, Breath of Heaven.
Breath of Heaven, lighten my darkness, pour over me Your holiness for You are holy,
Breath of Heaven....
...But I offer all I am for the mercy of Your plan,
Help me be strong, help me."
(Breath of Heaven (Mary's song), Words and Music by Amy Grant and Chris Eaton)

My hope is the same as yours; to be filled with Christ's love and share that with those around me. And, when you and I are down, that someone else will reciprocate; the Breath of Heaven.

Restoring Balance; Wholeness

2009-11-11T13:22:00.004-07:00

Hello all,
I'm sure you've wondered where I have been (or not). We've had a lot going on and I just realized that it's been a while since I've blogged on this site.

Just by way of information for those who live in the Salt Lake area of Utah; a seminar will be held this coming Sat. Nov. 14th; entitled Restoring Balance. The goal of Restoring Balance is spiritual, social, physical, mental and emotional wholeness. See www.restoringbalance.wordpress.com for information on the conference.

Seven inspirational speakers include:
Dr. Steve Doughty, Naturopathic Physician
Janet Summit, Cranial Sacral Therapist
Dr. David Christopher, The School of Natural Healing
Tisha Mecham, author "Bio-Kinetic Testing for Health"
Kelly Hansen, Art of Womanhood
Sharon Moran, Butterfly Expressions Essential Oils
and...a panel of real life experiences using alternative approaches to health.

My view is that 'alternative' things are more basic and whole than many of the current medical practices available. Some in the medical field are starting to recognize that fact.

One of my favorite quotes:
"The power that made the body, heals the body".

Lives, Fortunes, and Sacred Honor!

2009-07-04T22:21:00.005-06:00

Today has reminded me of the blessings of freedom that we have had. I am deeply grateful for the Founders of this Nation; knowing of their sacrifices in behalf of all who were to come after them. I wonder how much we know of them; their lives, their studies, their extreme efforts.

Today this e-mail was sent to me. I'm attaching it here as I felt it very worthy of review. I have seen the hand of God in the founding of this nation and hope that we will all take time to renew our efforts to defend the God-given principles of liberty.
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"In the 1800s there was a tradition at every 4th of July celebration. There were parades, cookouts, games, and fun. Cannon fire, fireworks, and more. Yet there were two key traditions which we should consider giving new life to.
First is prayer. No sect driven focus, simply a moment all shared in appreciation for the divine influence their Creator had on daily life with each other. Remember, governing is simply people agreeing how they will treat each other. Respect is the easiest, single word to describe a successful society governed in freedom.
Second, and one we can all embrace, is the reading of our country's birth certificate. The Declaration of Independence always was read toward the end of the festivities. It was an honor to be chosen to read it. It would be good to hear it read many times, many places today!
Happy Independence Day!!

Have you ever wondered what happened to the 56 men who signed the Declaration of Independence?

Five signers were captured by the British as traitors, and tortured before they died.
Twelve had their homes ransacked and burned.
Two lost their sons serving in the Revolutionary Army; another had two sons captured.
Nine of the 56 fought and died from wounds or hardships of the Revolutionary War.
They signed and they pledged their lives, their fortunes, and their sacred honor.
What kind of men were they?
Twenty-four were lawyers and jurists.
Eleven were merchants, nine were farmers and large plantation owners; men of means, well educated, but they signed the Declaration of Independence knowing full well that the penalty would be death if they were captured.
Carter Braxton of Virginia, a wealthy planter and trader, saw his ships swept from the seas by the British Navy. He sold his home and properties to pay his debts, and died in rags.
Thomas McKeam was so hounded by the British that he was forced to move his family almost constantly. He served in the Congress without pay, and his family was kept in hiding. His possessions were taken from him, and poverty was his reward.
Vandals or soldiers looted the properties of Dillery, Hall, Clymer,Walton, Gwinnett, Heyward, Ruttledge, and Middleton.
At the battle of Yorktown, Thomas Nelson, Jr., noted that the British General Cornwallis had taken over the Nelson home for his headquarters. He quietly urged General George Washington to open fire. The home was destroyed, and Nelson died bankrupt.
Francis Lewis had his home and properties destroyed. The enemy jailed his wife, and she died within a few months.
John Hart was driven from his wife's bedside as she was dying. Their 13 children fled for their lives. His fields and his gristmill were laid to waste. For more than a year he lived in forests and caves, returning home to find his wife dead and his children vanished.
So, take a few minutes while enjoying your 4th of July holiday and silently thank these patriots. It's not much to ask for the price they paid.
Remember: freedom is never free!

How Prepared Are You???

2009-06-10T12:12:00.003-06:00

Recently I've attended several preparedness seminars. Some were sponsored by the church, others were community events. At each one I have learned things that have helped me get more prepared and feel more ready for future events that may occur.

The greatest thing I've learned is that there is a great deal of peace that comes by being prepared. Those who choose to stick their heads in the sand --- are also those who don't have that peace.

Here is an article that was on-line today. I'm sharing it in hopes that it will be of benefit to all of you as well.
http://www.ldsmag.com/emergency/090610culture.html

Lists

2009-06-08T18:41:00.004-06:00

I don't know what I'd do without lists. My small 5x7 notebook keeps me organized and 'in the know' as to what is to be done. The first page is for long-term items that need to be addressed sometime (my Running To-Do page). They are not urgent -- but are important. When I read over them I am reminded to address them when I am able -- and to add them to my daily list when I can tackle them.

My second and third pages are for information in my church responsibilities and for my children's education. I have some website information as well as names and numbers and ideas etc.

My third section is my largest and most important. Its' my daily list. I plan a new list each day and head it with the date. I star those things that truly need to get done first --- and then, cross of those that are accomplished. (That feels good to do.) :)

But, sometimes I don't follow the list. That's the beauty of it; I'm not tied down to anything as I don't have an hr. by hr. planner.

It seems to me that lists can be good and helpful for those of us who function that way. I've tried many other systems over the years but have always returned to this.

In the back I have a page for groceries, one for food storage and preparedness items needed, and inside the back cover (don't tell my kids) I have a page for gift ideas. When they express something that they need or would really like -- I add it to the page. That page includes my name as well as some close relatives. It really helps when someone inquires as to what I need or what the children need.

For me this is a good way to keep organized, have things in one place (I have phone numbers inside the front cover), acknowledge my progress and accomplish tasks. It's like a 'return and report' item that helps clear my mind of worries -- as it's already written down.

Simplifying our Hearts

2009-04-09T18:58:00.004-06:00

What does 'Simplify Heart" really mean?
I believe that we can change our outward surroundings -- but that may be only a temporary fix unless we change our core beliefs or enhance our understanding of the deeper reason for all we do.

In my reading and pondering I've often underlined scriptures with the word 'heart' in them. There are hard hearts, soft hearts, broken hearts, and willing hearts etc. Unless a heart is broken and/or softened -- the outward changes are not a real reflection of inner-feelings.

In all my studies over the years I've come to feel that the attitude of our hearts can change everything. When our heart has changed or healed -- the manifestations of that will be seen in the outward things that we do. Homes will start to heal, weight from stress and anxieties will be reduced and our daily living will start to have more order and peace.

We can start from the outside in -- but I believe that the real change comes from healing the inner-self first. The Lord taught us to 'cleanse the inner vessel first'.

Save Your Liquid Laundry Soap Containers

2009-03-31T15:32:00.002-06:00

A great idea is to save your liquid laundry soap containers. When they are empty (or nearly so) fill with water and then label them as "soapy water".

Store for a future emergency when water pipes burst and you need to wash your hands etc.
Or --- take them camping if you'd like.

This is a simple way to adhere to the old pioneer adage:
Use it up
Wear it out
Make it do
or Do Without!

How Simplifying Prepares us for the Tribulations which are to come

2009-03-30T18:22:00.002-06:00

In the quest to Simplify Our Lives we each try to let go of non-essentials and hold fast to those things which matter most.

This short and powerful Video Clip by Prophets and Apostles -- reminds us why we are to "set aside the things of this world and seek for the things of a better."

I love these great men. They are 'see-ers' who know what is ahead as they have been given the gifts of prophecy and of revelation. Their mission is to warn and forewarn. We cannot, in the end, say that we did not know.

As I study the signs of the times, the prophecies of the last days, the Constitution of our Land, the Holy Words of God, I am reminded again and again how much He loves his children and desires to bless them. His only request is for us to come unto Him, to obey His commands, and to do the things that He has asked us to do. In this way He is bound by eternal laws - to bless and strengthen us. He would really like to be able to do that.

Any sacrifices that we must make in order to follow His ways -- will be worth it in the end. This I know of myself - independant of any other person.

Dirt Roads; by Paul Harvey

2009-03-12T11:53:00.002-06:00

Thought you might like this short clip about Dirt Roads by Paul Harvey.
Gives us all something to think about! Life was simpler then.........

How to REALLY know what's going on in the U.S.

2009-03-09T13:20:00.003-06:00

If you're like me you want to know the truth of what's REALLY going on in the country.
If you listen to or watch only the mainstream media --- you'll never know. They are liberally biased and share skewed versions of what is occuring. They have "A Slobbering Love Affair' with Barack Obama (title of book by Bernard Goldberg) and, of course, are pulling away from the principles on which cost this nation some of it's greatest blood.

If you listen to or read works by Ezra Taft Benson -- you'll know more. Watch short clip about the last days here.

And, then watch FOX news cable channel. They are the only ones who will tell both sides of the story and also have several conservative commentators who will share conservative views.

The ones to watch (or listen to on the radio) are Glenn Beck, Sean Hannity, Rush Limbaugh.

Many things are happening that most people aren't aware of. See ldsavow.com for information about warning signs to which we might want to be aware.

Simplify

2009-03-02T08:12:00.002-07:00

I taught a class last week in church on 'Simplifying'. Here is the flyer from that evening. Some of it will be self-explanatory but other items might need some explaining. But, I thought I'd put it here in case any of you could benefit from a few quick hints.

Simplify
If we want to have our homes in heaven, hereafter, we must have heaven in our homes here. Daryl Hoole

1. Simplify ……then Organize (3 bins; garbage, D.I., put-away, sell, return)
Do I love it?
Do I need it?
Do I want it?
Do I use it? (would something else do the job?) (scale from 1-10)

2. Paperwork; reduce first, simple planner, large familoy calendar, manila folders - labelled, 3-ring binders, binders for kids' schoolwork, tax sorter

3. Kitchen; reduce first (how many measuring cups do I need anyway) reduce gadgets, seasonal things in back or up high, keep only things you use, see-through containers, label everything, Ruffies (you don't need expensive garbage bags), clothes pins to seal bread/chips/cereal packages etc, plastic labelled water cups for kids, pizza cutter for pancakes, waffles etc., chore charts, Simplify Meals;
“To a great extent we are physically what we eat…….In most cases, the closer these can be (vegetables, fruits, and grains, particularly wheat) when eaten, to their most natural state -- without overrefinement and processing -- the healthier we will be. To a significant degree we are an overfed and undernourished nation digging an early grave with our teeth, and lacking the energy that could be ours because we overindulge in junk foods.” Pres. Benson

4. Closets; save favorites, modest, discard outdated or wrong sizes, neighbor who kept 5 sets of clothing for children

5. Laundry; 2 baskets for dirty (colored, whites). Fold as you take out; into labeled bins etc.

6. Kids; fewer toys, clothing, etc. (scale from 1-10), fewer ‘activities’ = less frantic parents/kids
Kids'; fill large box to donate to charity (give them $10.00 for doing so)

7. Cabinets; cleaning supplies- toxic, medicines etc. Clear out. Clean off countertops.

8. Books/Music; read (what to read), Lord’s library, sell, donate etc., A of F 13 – is it virtuous, lovely?

9. Healing (Scriptures, Prayer, Fasting, Temple Worship) “Let Go, Let God”
Feelings Buried Alive Never Die,
Dr. Fish (Healing the Inner Self – From Darkness into Light) www.DrMFish.com

10. Emotional Ties to ‘things’; take photos, ask for Lord’s help, free self from clutter, chaos, stress etc.
Let go of worldly things to put the Lord first -- preparedness; spiritual and temporal.

“Should the Lord decide at this time to cleanse the Church – and the need for that cleansing seems to be increasing – a famine in this land of one year’s duration could wipe out a large percentage of slothful members, including some ward and stake officers. Yet we cannot say we have not been warned”. -- Pres. Benson

“When we get into really hard times, where food is scarce or there is none at all, and so with clothing and shelter, money may be no good for there may be nothing to buy, and you cannot eat money, you cannot get enough of it to burn to keep warm, and you cannot wear it.” -- Pres. J. Reuben Clark

“By and by there will be a gulf between the righteous and the wicked so that they can not trade with each other, and national intercourse will cease…..are we not required to sustain ourselves and to manufacture that which we consume”. -- Brigham Young

“Lay up your stores, and take your fine silks and fine things, and exchange them for grain and such things as you need, and the time will come when we will be obliged to depend upon our own resources; for the time is not far distant when the curtain will be dropped between us and the United States. When that time comes, brethren and sisters, you will wish you can commenced sooner to make your own clothing. I tell you, God requires us to go into home manufacture; and prolong it as much as you like, you have got to do it.” -- Heber C. Kimball

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Delete Delete Delete

2009-02-14T14:54:00.002-07:00

In the quest to simplify --- sometimes we have to delete, delete, delete!

Several years back when my youngest was 4 and saying a family prayer she mentioned something and then wanted to change it so she simply said "oh, delete, delete, delete!" :) We all understood what she meant and knew that technology had played a role in teaching her how to get rid of something she didn't want to keep. :)

All of us have things in our lives which we'd like to delete if we only had the proper 'key' available to do so. Well, we do and we can! The Atonement of Christ call help us rid ourselves of unwanted things as well as give us a clean sheet of paper to type our future on.

I've been very busy the past few weeks and had to 'delete' blogging out of my schedule for that time period. The desire to put First Things First affects many aspects of our lives and seems to be a continual quest. Thanks to the Holy Spirit we can be guided as to what to let go of and what to keep; in all areas of our lives!

Thanks for your kindnesses and support. I've missed blogging!

"Get Back Up" POWERFUL YouTube video

2009-01-13T13:38:00.004-07:00

This is Powerful and deeply moving. Watch it and share.
Reminds us of what matters most --- and ...to simplify what doesn't.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MslbhDZoniY

It's humbling and touching!!!

Same 24 hrs. in a day

2009-01-02T17:31:00.002-07:00

We all have the same 24 hours in the day; no more, no less. How we choose to spend them determines the person we will become.

Prophets, leaders, noble women, experts all have the same 24 hrs. per day.

Content with least...

2008-12-27T15:09:00.002-07:00

"He is richest who is content with least". Socrates

"Everyday -- you should reach out and touch someone."

"God is my fountain of life. Without Him, I am no one. But, WITH Him -- I can do everything".

Favorite Artichoke Dip

2008-12-22T15:39:00.002-07:00

This is one of our very favorite recipes! It's simple and ..... delicious!

Artichoke Dip
14 oz. artichoke hearts (drained and chopped)
2 - 7 0z. cans chopped green chilis (drained)
3/4 c. to 1 c. mayonnaise
7 oz. grated parmesan cheese (cheese isle in package --not jar)
dash of cayenne pepper or hot sauce (if desired) we don't put it

mix together and barely heat (in microwave until cheese is melted)

Serve with crackers and Enjoy!!!

Simplify Christmas

2008-12-22T14:23:00.002-07:00

This is probably too late; but it's just a reminder to Simplify Christmas.
Was it Elder Uchtdorf who reminded us that perhaps the state of the economy is a blessing in disguise. Perhaps we'll all be more mindful of what matters most, we'll let go of unrealistic and unnecessary expectations and take time for the things of most worth!

Bless you all for a wonderful season!

Current Chore Chart

2008-12-11T20:08:00.007-07:00

Over the years we've used all sorts of chore charts. I don't believe that there is one 'best' way as we are all different, have different family situations, and the children grow.

What used to work when they were younger -- doesn't always work when they are older. And....as they get older they are able to take on more responsibilities and do more work around the home.

My kids don't always do everything on their lists -- but, we keep trying. There is often a lot of follow-through required as not all children are self-starters or desirous to always do what we want them to do. But, this chart seems to work better than some of the others that we have done. Here it is. We're doing it monthly as it takes a few days for the kids to remember their chores and get used to a new schedule. Monthly works best for us right now. We do have a new rule -- 'no breakfast until your bed is made'. That is motivational yet we're still working on it and other things too.

Our continual quest is to simplify; hence the wonderful "Simplify" magnet from Angie. (But, she's trying to simplify too -- so....you'll have to wait until after Christmas if you want one of your own.) :)

I keep a grocery list on the left -- with a pencil (magnetized) so we can add things as we run low or as the kids plan their weekly menus.

So...what works best for you? Any great ideas???

Simplify Meal Planning

2008-12-05T09:47:00.007-07:00

We've tried different things, over the years, to organize and simplify meal planning. What currently works best for us has evolved and suits our needs well. We have tried to increase grains, whole foods, vegetables and fruits and avoid processed things. We try to eat more simply and healthily and use much from our food storage. Perhaps still have a ways to go, but, we're trying.

We have two lists on the fridge. One is a LIST of meal ideas sorted by breakfast, lunch, dinner.

The other is an actual meal plan list made by the children. They each are responsible for one meal per day; planning, cooking, setting table, clean-up.

On Mondays (preparation and planning day) the kids are supposed to fill in the chart (using food items we already have) and then put needed food items on the grocery list for shopping. It doesn't always work perfectly -- but -- it's a good basic outline and plan that provides some stability and continuity.

Sometimes -- we switch menu days around when we're in the mood for something in particular.

We keep a basket of fruit on the counter top for snacks. (Apples give off some type of gas that makes other fruits spoil faster -- so - keep apples separated from other fruits when possible.)

To-Do Lists -- and....simplifying

2008-12-04T19:32:00.003-07:00

Today -- look at your 'to-do' list and see if there isn't something that you can just cross off. Maybe there isn't. Perhaps you are one who is already led by the Spirit in your daily comings and goings.

But, if you aren't --- then, my nudging today would be for you to see what you can let go of. What can you eliminate from your life to reduce your stress and allow more peace?

I believe that as we 'let go' of things that aren't truly needful -- we will be guided to things that are. So.....bless you for your willingness to try!

We only have ONE real need.....

2008-12-02T17:52:00.002-07:00

We only have ONE real need. What do you think it is?

Though we know that we need food, clothing, shelter, fuel, water, and oxygen to survive - those things are secondary to the one need that we only really have. That is the need; to be redeemed!

If we were to die by starvation we'd still have this need.
People all over the world who suffer because of lack of food, clothing, shelter etc. still have this need.

A favorite professor taught me this and I have never forgotten it.

So, in the days ahead -- may we realize that there is much that we can do without -- but, not without the redemptive powers of the Savior of the world.

Natural Healing for the Common Cold

2008-11-26T17:21:00.002-07:00

I've long been a support of natural methods of healing as I feel that the Lord has provided the means whereby we can do much good on our own. Here's a good article with information about natural healing for the common cold.

Live Simply so.....

2008-11-26T08:45:00.002-07:00

"Live Simply so that others may simply live!"

At church on Sunday we talked about living a more simple life.
There are many poor among us. We must let-go of extra items that are no longer being used -- and give them to charity -- people who are truly in need.

Our state receives refugees from around the world every year. They are dispersed among the counties. We are currently getting groups from Burma. Most people don't know about it and go along in their lives -- with things being fairly stable and predictable. But, these people come in dire need. Our unselfishness will bless lives; others' and our own.

The golden rule holds true "Do Unto Others as You Would Have Them Do Unto You."

The man is richest whose.....

2008-11-19T17:26:00.001-07:00

Something good to think about:

"The man is richest whose pleasures are cheapest."
Henry David Thoreau

Days of Week - Planning

2008-11-15T09:12:00.003-07:00

Here is an idea for planning the week day by day. I got it from an educational conference a few years back and have modified it to fit our needs and current lifestyle. The gal who presented it actually went along with Biblical planning - and how each day of the week served a specific purpose.

It's been a nice idea and has worked for us -- though we are flexible and don't always stick to it exactly.

In addition to and underlying our regular chores and daily homeschooling plan is this:
Monday - Preparation Day; planning, shopping, errands
Tuesday - Organizing; Extra Study, cleaning etc.
Wednesday- Discovery; Library Day, Extra Reading, Discovery Day, Creation Time
Thursday - Homeschool Group (Constitution, Biology, History and Literature, Spanish)
Friday - Service, Field Trip

Perhaps this may give you an idea if you are trying to plan your life better. :)

Photos of my planner for sweet Kristal

2008-11-14T15:50:00.017-07:00

Here are some photos of my little planner pages -- especially for you sweet Kristal! :)
Hope they help.
This is a 5x7 notebook. I always pick covers that I really like. I've had some undesirable ones in the past and didn't feel much like planning. lol This was from WalMart for about 1.69. Can't beat the price.

First Section:

Front cover -- left side -- personal phone list and pocket. I keep coupons and other needed coupons etc. in the little pocket on the left.

Right side is Running To-Do list. Longer-term items (or non-urgent but important) that I'll get to when I can -- or cross them off eventually.

Second Section:

Daily To-Do pages. (My favorite pages). I always write the date at top. It helps keep me organized. Sometimes I do a few pages in a row when I have scheduled appts. etc.

I write this new list at night or in the morning and it really helps me maintain a sense of organization while allowing me the freedom to change things as needed. I'm not bound to a certain scheduled time allotment -- but, I can organize my time as I feel to.

The coupon on the left is for my daughters' new piano book. I put it here for the photo and wrote "get piano book" on next Monday's list (Monday is shopping day). So, I'll keep these coupons in the front pocket until Monday when I KNOW I am going to use them.

Third Section:

This is the third section of the notebook. I've marked it with a small post-it at the top.

Left side is Food Storage -- watching for sales etc.

Right side is for my next trip to the store. I cross things off when purchased and then tear out the page and write a new one when needed. That's why it's on the right side and the long-term food storage is on the left. It stays there even when I write a new on on the right.

I keep a magnetic list on the fridge so the kids can add things as we run out. When they say "Mom , we're out of celery" then, I tell them to 'go write it on the fridge". I transfer the items to this notebook list on shopping day. If I don't -- we don't quite know what we need.

This is my last section (don't tell my kids) and last page of the book.

I title this Gift Ideas (or items needed). It's broken down by person -- if you can decipher that.

On the left is a note from my son who wants a particular knife set he saw on TV. It's got the information and cost. (He wants to go to culinary school. But, we'll have to see about the fancy knife set.) :)

Hope that is of some help!

I sure appreciate the great comments from you and others!

I've gained ideas from others over the years and do what works best for me and how I function.
Hopefully this will give you some ideas and/or inspiration! Let me know! :)

Tagged Photo

2008-11-14T15:44:00.003-07:00

Okay, so Christie tagged me for photos (find 4th photo in 4th folder and post).

Here it is:

Official family photo for 2008 -at the mall booth a few months ago -- we got the giggles and couldn't stop laughing.

What type of planner is best?

2008-11-12T10:42:00.003-07:00

What type of planner is 'best'? There is no 'right' answer to that! We all work and think differently.

Over the years I've used various planners and lists. I've settled on what is best and easiest for me. I use a small, lined notebook to keep a running list of things to do. I've divided into sections that work for me.

On the inside front cover I paste a printed page of important phone numbers and addresses.
(You can also keep these on your cell phone -- but I like to have the written copy too.)

The front page for me is a long-term to do list or 'running-to-do' list that I keep in the back of my mind and tackle when I have the time. It's a list of items that aren't urgent -- but are important and perhaps needful. During the month I'll check the list and add it to my daily list when I have the time to do it. Sometimes the items passes in importance and I am able to just cross it off.

The second page (and section) is my largest. Each day I write a new list of things to be done that day. I put in calendared items along with the needful things of the day. This is my favorite section and one that I couldn't live without.

Third section I have as a grocery and supply list (I have a small post-it to mark the page). (I keep a list on the fridge to easily note items as needed and transfer it to my grocery list when I am going to go shopping.) I have a page for food storage items and preparedness items. This really helps me to track needed items and know what to purchase if there is a good sale.

The last page of my notebook (hidden at the back) are gift ideas and needed items for my children,myself and others. When they mention something that they need or desire - I will note it in my notebook so as not to forget. Sometimes the months pass and the wanted items are no longer wanted - so I cross them off.

Whatever type of planner you use -- is what works for you. But --- use something!!! :)

Write things down so that you don't have to stress about remembering things!
Write things down so that you can cross them off and feel a sense of accomplishment!
Write things down so that you can keep track of needed items and calendared events!

Many of you use new handheld computer devices. These work great for some of you. I've tried various things but, for some reason, have always come back to the notebook method. It fits easily into my purse, is inexpensive, easily maintained, and easily updated and renewed.

With the notebook idea I am not bound to any certain method or program and I'm able to find flexibility and time for spiritual promptings during the day. My prayer is that I won't overschedule -- but allow time to help others and to accomplish the most needful tasks.

Some things aren't so simple

2008-11-06T18:49:00.003-07:00

Despite the fact that I blog about simplifying -- some things aren't so simple.

We're in a time of wars and rumors of wars, calamaties and natural disasters, hearts of many waxing cold etc. Future challenges may not seem easy to deal with. We may be tested to our capacity to bear.

But, as was once said 'the gospel is beautifully simple and simply beautiful' and we can trust in that. No matter what lies ahead -- our futures are bright and hopeful. We may have to pass through storms to get there but the promises are SURE. "All things work together for the good of those who love me." This should give us hope and remind us of the simple principles which will guide us through difficult days.

Simplify Laundry

2008-11-04T17:38:00.002-07:00

We're all at different stages of life. For those of you who are overwhelmed with laundry here are a few suggestions. If any of them work for you great! We all do what we can to simplify and make things easier! There is no right or wrong way; only what works best for you and what can help to simplify your life.

1. De-junk closets. Get rid of things you've outgrown or don't wear. Send used kids' items to a thrift store where someone else can benefit from them. Really downsize and keep only the things that you love and wear! (This will save MORE time than anything else you can do!)

2. Store seasonal items in bins or boxes. Keep them stored until needed! This unclutters closets and helps to keep things neat and organized.

3. Wear items more than once.
I keep telling my kids that they can wear pants more than once if they're still clean. It's not gross; it's practical! :) The more we wash things the sooner they wear out. Wearing items more than once will save on laundry, detergent, work etc.

4. Keep dirty clothes bins/hampers in places where dirty clothes are dropped (bedroom, bathroom, laundry room etc.

OR

5. Train everyone to put their dirty clothes right into the laundry room as they take them off. (This saves steps if it's a possibility).
I knew of a family who had a HUGE laundry room. It served as the family closet as well as the family dressing room. :)
Hmmmmm ---- you do what works for you!

6. Have separate laundry baskets in the laundry room for coloreds and whites!

7. Do one batch of laundry per day! Keep up with the work load daily.
OR
8. Set aside one day per week for laundry. This works best for some families.

Simplify Scrapbooking

2008-10-28T18:03:00.002-06:00

I've learned how to simplify scrapbooking. It all started years ago when I attended a 'Creative Memories' girls' night out; 10 hrs. of continuous scrapbooking. I sat next to a gal who spent 2 1/2 hrs. cutting out TINY red and black squares to put BEHIND a photo of her daughter in a red and black checkered dress. When the background was finally laid she pasted the photo right over the top of nearly all of those little black squares! I about died. It got me thinking about the waste of time that some scrapbooking is. My creative memories gal once told me (after years of being a consultant) "done is better than cute". She also said that in 10 yrs. all the cutesy stickers will be out of style (just like things from the 70's and 80's are for us now). It's the photos and journalling that matter most.

I learned much from those early scrapbooking years -- and will never go back to doing what I did. It seems to me that it's better to spend time having the experience (and being with the family) than just scrapbooking about it. It also has occured to me that the purpose of a scrapbook is to help people feel a sense of belonging and worth. Stickers don't often do that but photos and the written word do.

Nowdays you can do a lot on-line. My understanding is that the ink is still expensive and hasn't been proven to last as long as regular photos and acid-free paper. But, I may do it someday. I have a lot of on-line photos saved for that day. :)

I've concluded that I like 3-ring binders better than anything else. (Some of the scrapbooks are extremely heavy and bulky -- and difficult to look through. They are also usually very pricey and difficult to insert pages into.) Three-ring binders are inexpensive, easy to create, and easy to add and subtract pages to.

I do a cover page with a photo and then I easily insert pages into plasic sheet covers. I put some of their best school work, favorite photos, talks in church, awards or recognitions etc. Most things come in 8 1/2 x 11 sizes and fit well into the binder. To make the photos stand out I often cut colored paper to paste behind the photo as it adds neatness and consistency.

School projects that are too large -- are photographed -- and then the photo is added to the album.

I keep all the things that I haven't caught-up-on yet, in a black file box in dated manilla file folders. This is an easy file to add to and keeps things neatly organized.

What to do about tangled cords....

2008-10-27T18:28:00.003-06:00

Do you have a mess of tangled cords behind the TV or computer or in a box somewhere?

The easiest way to keep them sorted and organized is to wind or roll them up and then 'tie' them together with girls pony tail holders. Pony tail holders (any colors) are inexpensive, easy to remove without a sticky mess, and simple to apply. Use them for all extra cords around the home.

Preparing for the coming days...

2008-10-25T13:03:00.003-06:00

An article in today's paper referred to a panel of LDS experts who met to present ideas to others' that would help in preparing for the coming days.

I appreciated the comments of one woman who told how she cancelled all 18 of her magazine subscriptions in one day. It brought her relief financially and freed up much of her time. (What a burden to have 18 magazine subscriptions!)

Other panel members talked about simplifying and going back to the days of the old pioneer adage "Use it up, wear it out, make it do, or do without."

We've lived in days of affluence and 'affluenza' (as some people call it) where it has often been less expensive to purchase something new than to repair the old thing (order parts) or make something out of the materials that we already had. But, those days may be going!

Whatever skills we've honed will be useful in the future. The less we depend on 'stuff' to get us through -- the more we'll depend upon our own creativity, frugality, selflessness and ....the Lord. We'll recognize our dependance upon and appreciation for him and all that He has blessed us with; spiritually and emotionally. We'll turn away from worldly pleasures and seek things of greater worth and lasting meaning.

Count Your Many Blessings

2008-10-20T17:37:00.003-06:00

Yesterday, at church, we sang the hymn "Count Your Many Blessings".
I sang it in Spanish as that was the available hymn book where I sat. It was good to be reminded of and ponder on the meanings in Spanish -- as they are somewhat different than in English .

Apparently I needed those reminders because my daughter has been practicing it on the piano this afternoon as well! I'm grateful for that because my spirit has been feeling down lately as I pull the handcart alone and it's heavy and full.

Yes, today is one of those days where I really need to count!

Count Your Many Blessings
When upon life's billows you are tempest tossed
When you are discouraged thinking all is lost,
Count your many blessings; name them one by one,
And it will suprise you what the Lord has done.

Are you ever burdened with a load of care?
Does the cross seem heavy you are called to bear?
Count your many blessings; every doubt will fly,
And you will be singing as the days go by.

When you look at others with their lands and gold,
Think that Christ has promised you his wealth untold.
Count your many blessings; money cannot buy
Your reward in heaven nor your home on high.

So, amid the conflict, whether great or small,
Do not be discouraged; God is over all.
Count your many blessings; angels will attend,
Help and comfort give you to your journey's end.
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Yes, I've REALLY needed that reminder today.
Nothing else will do when we need truth from the Lord; messages that strengthen the feeble knees and the hands that hang low.

Financial "Crisis" or something more?

2008-10-18T16:52:00.005-06:00

Are we in a financial crisis or something more?

When I need true information I often turn to my brother who, to me, is a great source of research and wisdom. His recent blog http://www.paulallen.net/becoming-informed#comments about the current financial state of our nation is informative and beneficial. Those of you who are financially savy -- and much smarter than me -- may do well to ponder upon his findings. He's a father, businessman and Bishop. I feel he has good judgement and is well-read and informed.

Me, I want to find things out and yet, I'm somewhat simplistic too. I listen to the Prophet's who have said "get out of debt if at all humanly possible", "save for a rainy day", "prepare for the future", "purchase a modest home", etc.

I'm currently reading "The Making of America" by Cleon Skousen. My heart has been deeply moved as I've been reminded of the hand of God in authoring our Constitution and leading good men to this land in order to establish a more perfect union where they could worship freely and according to their own conscience. Their sacrifices were great and their personal integrity and prowess are awe-inspiring. With our present state-of-being I have to wonder if of our current politicians have ever even read the founders stories and the history of this great country.

As I listen to conservative talk radio, read and study the issues, compare todays happenings with those of the Book of Mormon times, I am amazed at the comparisons and the cycle of pride that often prevails when power is gained by certain individuals.

Benjamin Franklin said "Only a virtuous people are capable of freedom. As nations become corrupt and vicious, they have more need of masters."

And John Adams was equally as explicit with "Our Constitution was made only for a moral and religious people. It is wholly inadequate to the government of any other."

Samuel Adams added a final warning "Neither the wisest constitution nor the wisest laws will secure the liberty and happiness of a people whose manners are universally corrupt".

Perhaps the financial crisis is only a result of a deeper problem to which the answer is only righteousness and humility for all of us. This is something that we do have control over.

3-ring binders are our friends....

2008-10-13T20:01:00.008-06:00

Three-ring binders are our friends! What would we do without them.?

I've found that it's easier and more convenient to use 3-ring binders than to file everything. They are quickly accessible, update-able, and neatly organized into one area.

Label 3-ring binders with black marker on the spine -- (I used to print out nice labels -- but, it takes too much time) and print out a nice cover page for each one.

Use them for school calendars and important papers, yearly schoolwork (save the best work), financial papers, personal and family histories, scouting information [get baseball card plastic divider sheets to keep merit badge papers], topical studies, reports, girls' activities, recipes, home improvement ideas, crafts etc.

It's nice to be able to find things when you need them. Store binders on bookshelfs or desktop for easy access and convenient browsing.

File away papers that you're not using frequently -- but, organize the rest into inexpensive white 3-ring binders!

Walden Pond

2008-10-06T19:11:00.004-06:00

In our lives we need to find a 'Walden Pond' away from the world - where we can think and ponder and notice!

When Thoreau left his home for 2 yrs. to find a place to think and watch nature and learn about himself and about life, little did he know what a changed man he would become.

There are spiritual benefits of a simplified lifestyle and we have recently been counselled to "Earnestly seek to simplify your lives". (L. Tom Perry)

Four things are needful:
1. Food (healthy)
2. Clothing (simple and modest)
3. Housing (what you can afford -- not beyond your means)
4. Fuel (physical and spiritual)

I believe that there is more peace and happiness to be found in the simple things of life than in the extravagant and worldly -- no matter how enticing they 'SEEM' to be.

Thanks for the opportunity to blog and share with you all. It helps me to continually remember!

Insurance paperwork

2008-10-03T15:55:00.003-06:00

I think that insurance companies need my help in simplifying. :) After a recent car accident we've been inundated with paperwork from all sorts of places.

The insurance company provided us with separate contact phone numbers for medical, liability, benefits, adjusters, towing, total loss adjuster, claims office, etc. I have a whole file folder filled with information about the car rental, towing company, medical forms etc. If it wasn't tragic it would be sort of funny. But, the paperwork seems nearly endless. It sure would be nice if they, in the 21st century, could streamline the process with one phone call.

It's given me a renewed appreciation for my own opportunity to streamline in my own home.
I don't have control over the insurance company and their proceedures, but I do have jurisdiction over my own home, desk area and ability to keep things organized.

Car Accident

2008-10-01T16:43:00.003-06:00

I've been off the blog for a few days as we had a car accident last Friday. Our car was totalled but, with time, we're all going to be okay. It could have been much worse -- so, we were grateful about that.

I've come to believe that 'things happen for a reason' as a wise friend once told me. Blessings can come from the challenges. We're able to get medical attention that we wouldn't have otherwise received, a new--used car (as the kids felt too squished in the old one), and have been able to pray for the woman who caused the accident as she doesn't have much moral support where she lives.

Accidents (and other challenges) can help to slow us down and redirect our focus and thought processes. We are forced to stop and rest, stop and ponder, and stop and look as to where our lives are going and what we can learn in the present situation!

It would be easier to simplify if......

2008-09-25T19:53:00.004-06:00

Do you think that it would be easier to simplify if..... we didn't have children, or spouses, or roommates or.... stuff?

My Mom used to jokingly say 'I was the perfect mother until I had children' (afterall, she HAD graduated in child and family development and thought she knew it all --- until the children came along.)

Isn't it funny how we're 'tested' in certain areas -- especially the ones that we feel so passionately or strongly about?

It really might be easier to keep things clean and neat and organized --- if we were the lone survivor on an island --- or in our own home. But, perhaps that's not the situation we're in. Maybe we're 'teachers' to others' as we stride (or limp) along the path of life. Perhaps there are lessons in the 'process' of simplifying, de-junking, letting-go and finding a place (in our homes and in our lives) for everything that we decide to keep. In the actual process of simplifying and organizing -- we learn about, and for, ourselves -- what matters most. If we're willing to 'let-go' of excess baggage we may find more meaning and fulfillment in the intangibles!

Squash Soup

2008-09-23T18:36:00.003-06:00

Last night we made Squash Soup for dinner. It was delicious!!!

We have been so grateful for people who have shared from their gardens this year. From the zucchini we've made zucchini bread, fried zucchini, steamed zucchini, sauted zucchini and now.... zucchini soup. The kids even loved it!!!

Zucchini Soup:
3-4 sliced squash (we used 1 zucchini and 3 summer squash)
2 c. water
2 chicken bouillon
salt and pepper to taste

Simmer until squash is tender (10-12 min.) ; then mash (or blend if you like it really smooth).
Add milk and/or cream for consistency and taste! Enjoy!

It's healthy, yummy and inexpensive!!!

Busyness or Productiveness

2008-09-20T11:57:00.004-06:00

Recently I read this on a poster:

Don't mistake activity for achievement.
Busyness does not equal productiveness.

It gave me some good things to think about. Sometimes I wonder if we keep so busy doing 'things' that we don't take the time for the fundamentals which matter the very most and will keep us grounded when the storms of life are all around us; prayer, meditation, scripture study, temple attendance, hugs, time with a child, loving others, teaching correct principles etc.

I've given a lot of thought to all the activities that we have available to us; sports, music, travel, crafts, fixing our homes etc. Those are all good things --- if we are properly centered. But, they can get us out of balance too -- if they are our focus.

It's a continual quest to find the proper balance. It seems to me that Pres. Benson had it right when he said something like this: If we put the Lord first -- ALL other things will fall into -- or out of -- place.

I am continually striving for that and am grateful that I have so much time to practice it. :) We all fall short of some of the things that we desire -- but are grateful for the Lord's willingness to work with and mentor us!

Simplify THEN Organize

2008-09-19T06:56:00.003-06:00

Sometimes we have it backwards. But, in truth it's easiest to Simplify and THEN organize. Box up things that no longer serve a purpose. Even 'things' have a season. After that they become 'clutter' or 'mess'. Take photos of items that you are having a hard time letting-go of because of emotional attachment. Blog about it if you need to -- and then ---- 'bless and release' (hint from Amanda Dickson - radio talk show host and author).

Label three containers (boxes, bins or garbage bags).
1. put away
2. throw away
3. give away

You may want to start with a closet or drawer. With a prayer in your heart --- begin to lighten-your-load by discarding things that are no longer needful for you but could serve a purpose for someone else.

We come into this world with no-things but often gather lots around us as we go throughout life. The trick is to find a balance between what we need and what is no longer a blessing.

Calling ALL Mormon Moms. . .

2008-09-18T17:16:00.006-06:00

Would you please join our new blog LIST at http://www.MormonMomsWhoBlog.blogspot.com/?
Just visit the site and leave your blog name! We'll add you to the ever-growing list!!!

Link to us in your blog and blog about us! This site is meant to be a win-win for all!!!

Thanks!

God Sustains Us

2008-09-11T17:49:00.003-06:00

God sustains us in our trials. When we are obedient and faithful we have no need to worry. He will carry us through out trials and sustain us in times of need.

I am grateful for this reminder today -- as sometimes I tend to rely on my own strength (or lack of it) too much.

Brigham Young -- June 8, 1856:
"The first year that I came into this valley I had not flour enough to last my family until harvest, and that I had brought with me, and persons were coming to my house every day for bread. I had the blues about one day; I went down to the old fort, and by the time I got back to my house I was completely cured. I said to my wife, “Do not let a person come here for food and go away empty handed, for if you do we shall suffer before harvest; but if you give to every individual that comes we shall have enough to last us through.”
I have proven this many a time, and we have again proven it this year. I have plenty on hand, and shall have plenty, if I keep giving away. More than two hundred persons eat from my provisions every day, besides my own family and those who work for me.
I intend to keep doing so, that my bread may hold out, for if I do not I shall come short. Do you believe that principle? I know it is true, because I have proven it so many times.
I have formerly told this community of a circumstance that occurred to brother Heber and myself, when we were on our way to England . We paid our passage to Kirtland, and to my certain knowledge we had only $13.50, but we paid out $87.00; this is but one instance among many which I could name.
You who have flour and meat, deal it out, and do not be afraid that you will be too much straightened, for if you will give, you will have plenty, for it is God who sustains us and we have got to learn this lesson. All I ask of you is to apply your heart to wisdom and to watch the providences of God, until you prove for yourselves that I am telling the truth, even that which I do know and have experienced. 4"

From meridian magazine today:
"Brigham Young had been diligent in doing all that he could before he received these blessings where the Lord literally multiplied his food. His wagons were full of flour and his land planted as best he could. Also, in true pioneer spirit of thrift, industry and hatred of the dole, those in need who were able bodied would expect and be expected to work for what they received." Ronald Millet

We do what we can and trust in the Lord to deliver us. In all of history He has always kept his word on that and he will do that in the future.

Prayer Walk and Prayer Roll

2008-09-05T13:55:00.005-06:00

I love to walk alone with my thoughts and with the Lord. I think of it as my 'prayer walk'. I am able to connect with nature and with God and with few distractions. It's starting to get cold so I don't know if I'll continue to walk outside all winter or not. But, I'm grateful for the summer times that I've had as they've helped me clear my head and simplify some of life's hectic times.

We also do a 'prayer roll' as a family. It started a few months back when we were asked to pray for a particular man in our area. I wrote his name on a list and put it on the fridge for all to see. I also added a friend who had been struggling and -- the Prophet who had asked us in conference to pray for him. Within a few days the list had grown to include a missionary niece, family members and friends and each of my children.

Our family 'prayer roll' is meaningful. As we kneel to pray we are easily reminded of those in need and those we love. It helps us appreciate and acknowledge the blessings that we have when we are aware of some of the struggles and challenges of others'.

20 uses for WD-40

2008-09-03T14:33:00.007-06:00

They say that if it moves and shouldn't -- use duct tape. It if doesn't move and should.... use WD-40. Well, here are some other uses for WD-40. Hope they'll cheer you along the way.

1. Spray on leather shoes to soften them, shine them, (prevent water and salt stain in winter) and make them more comfortable.
2. Spray on concrete driveways to remove unsightly oil spots.
3. Spray on car hoses and fan belts to keep them from drying out and cracking.
4. Spray on front of car to avoid build-up of squished bugs on the grill.
5. Spray on box spring mattresses to remove squeaking.
6. Lubricate playground equipment; swings, teeter-totters etc.
7. Spray on snow shovels and sled runners to keep snow from sticking.
8. Spray on shopping cart to reduce wobbling and friction.
9. Remove gum from hair and sticky tape from surfaces.
10. Spray on car door locks to prevent them from freezing.
11. Clean and protect golf clubs (and gardening tools).
12. Spray to prevent wasps from nesting on your house.
13. Prevent and get rid of fleas and ticks on your dog. (never near dogs eyes, nose or mouth)
14. Restore and clean chalkboard.
15. Help break in new baseball mitts.
16. Unstick keys on computer keyboard and mouse.
17. Remove fingers or arms stuck in tight places (or wedding rings).
18. Loosen zippers.
19. Untangle fishing lines.
20. Remove residue from after affects of duct tape.

(Ideas gleened from the WD-40 Book, by Jim and Tim - The Duct Tape Guys)

What does 'get organized' really mean?

2008-08-28T11:20:00.006-06:00

Do we take it to mean order in the home or office? Do we think of labelled boxes and containers each with their own shelf or drawer or file? I think that's all part of it. It saves time and frustration to be able to find something when we need it. But, there's more to it. Our outward environment is a reflection of what is going on inside us; whether by chaos or order.

I've heard Michael Ballam talk about Handels' Water Music being of the most organized music created. It helps student's (and all of us) learn and focus and get their brain 'organized' in order to do so.

The opposite is true as well - music, videos, books, 'entertainments', places we go etc. all can have an affect on us. The glory of God is.....light and truth. Those two elements provide peace and ..... order. The result of their affect on our lives is shown outwardly in ours. It's something to think about as we try to get more organized. It starts from the inside -- though as we do it outwardly it can help us along internally!

Simplify Life

2008-08-25T08:05:00.003-06:00

Life isn't usually very simple but we can make it less-difficult, and find more peace by letting-go of excess baggage - both physical and emotional.

Last night I attended a meeting where the speaker reminded us that we only have control over a small circle of influence; our own. Our lives are large circles of influence over which we really have no control. As we realize that our sphere of control is only over ourselves and our immediate environment, then we can let go of the expectations (and weight) of controlling others', their environments, outward events, varied life experiences etc.

We live in a world where we are exposed to many things because of other people's choices. Some of the challenges and trials of life are because of the consequences of other people's choices over which we have NO control but which affect us. As we accept this fact we are able to worry less, and trust in God more. WE can't change other people, but we can change ourselves and the way we look at things and the Lord can help THEM to change.

The ability to simplify life comes from the recognition that we deal with our small circle of issues and not the whole large circle of everyone else's choices. We turn to the Lord for help in healing ourselves and our expectations and we trust that He knows us, loves us, cares for us, and will help us. We recognize, too, that he loves others and desires to help them as they turn to Him.

Office Organization

2008-08-22T12:49:00.004-06:00

The same principles apply to office and business organization as they do to home and personal organization. With adaptability you can organize anything. The first step is to simplify. (How long do you think it takes families in Africa to get organized?)

First, decide what you are currently needing and using. This will be your foundation for all else you decide.

Second, label boxes or file folders with papers or items that can be stored. These items, stored away, will save you much future time and frustration.

Third, throw away or shred any papers or items that are no longer needed. Get rid of as much clutter as you can. (Clutter makes Everything take longer.)

Fourth, make sure that you have a place for everything you keep. Think about the items you need and use and decide where to put them. (file folders, desk trays, drawers, bulletin board etc.) If you work best with 'piles' then make sure that you label the piles and then stack them on a bookshelf or work area.

1. Organize as would work best for you. There is not one 'right' way.
2. Don't put things that you need continually, into containers with lids.
3. Throw away as much as you can. This is the best step into aleviating stress and overload.
4. File as much as you can. Colored folders - by subject -work best for some people. Others prefer plain ones labelled by topic or alphebetized.
5. Make a place for everything. Purchase a pencil holder or putty as needed.
6. Keep a calendar for all your events. When you get an appt. card - transfer the information to your calendar and discard the card.
7. If you save something -- make sure that you have a place to put it. Start a new file folder if needed.
8. Always ask yourself; Do I really need it? Do I want it? Does it serve a purpose? Is there something else that will do the job?

Take a few steps to simplify and you'll be able to work more efficiently and effectively.

Messy House when Company Comes

2008-08-22T12:20:00.003-06:00

My kids don't really care what the house looks like when they invite friends over. But, I do. I guess that's the parenting part of me or the simplify-and-organize part that wants things to be in place and to have order.

It all started when Andrew got a bird. Well, he got the cage first. He found it on-line and purchased it sight-unseen. When we got it home we realized that the cage slats were 1" apart. For parakeets, they are supposed to be 1/2" apart or the bird can escape. Well, he did. Escape, that is. So, the next day we found another cage on-line and called to ask about it. The slats were indeed 1/2" apart but it was a smaller cage. We decided to buy it anyway as we didn't want an escaped bird fluttering about house in the middle of the night -- and it was the only one we could readily find at a discount.

Since then, the bird, two cages, and paraphenalia have been in the front room as we're deciding what to do about a permanant location ("The book" is specific about that, you know). The bag for charity is by the front door and the treadmill-for-sale is also near the front entrance. In the meantime we've had quite a bit of company. They never come when the house has just been cleaned. They come when it's just needing to be so.

So, I've decided, that in the process of simplification -- there have to be adjustments along the route. One day, after all the children are gone and the house is lonely and quiet -- it will be totally clean. In the meantime, there is joy to be found in the journey. That includes a messy new bird and visits with dear friends --- despite the less-than-perfect surroundings.

No Trial is Wasted

2008-08-21T15:52:00.002-06:00

This is one of my favorite quotes of all time. It has helped me on many occassion. I'm posting it on my three blogs today as it's applicable to all of us and in all areas of life. I hope that it helps you as it's helped me.

Elder Orson F. Whitney said: “No pain that we suffer, no trial that we experience is wasted. It ministers to our education, to the development of such qualities as patience, faith, fortitude and humility. All that we suffer and all that we endure, especially when we endure it patiently, builds up our characters, purifies our hearts, expands our souls, and makes us more tender and charitable, more worthy to be called the children of God … and it is through sorrow and suffering, toil and tribulation, that we gain the education that we come here to acquire and which will make us more like our Father and Mother in heaven” (quoted in Spencer W. Kimball, Faith Precedes the Miracle, 98).

Family "Vacation" and Temple Square

2008-08-18T08:52:00.004-06:00

Last Thursday (and thanks to my Dad!!!) we went on a long-awaited and very-needed short 'vacation'. We ended up staying at the Hampton Inn at Thanksgiving Point in Lehi, Utah. (It was a nice hotel as I have a thing for clean places to sleep). At the kids' request we spent a few hrs. with Mona, a woman in Orem who TRULY helps in the healing process (we LOVE her and she does WONDERS for us all) and then ate at our favorite Mexican restaurant: Taco Amigo, in Orem. (I worked there when I was 15-16).

Friday, we shopped for school clothes at our 'favorite' thrift store; Savers (the kids found some great things) and then went to West Jordan for lunch (Crepes at European Connection -Ashley's choice). We swam in the evening when we got back to the hotel and ended the day in our room watching the olympics; women's gymnastics and men's swimming.

Saturday morning we loaded the car, checked-out of the hotel, and headed to Salt Lake and to Temple Square. (This was my vote for the day.) It had been several years since we'd seen the movie "Joseph Smith, Prophet of the Restoration" and I had been wanting to take the children there for several months. I wasn't disappointed. In fact, I was awed and humbled and we were all very moved by the powerful presentation. We were touched by the Spirit of the Lord as we saw His hand in restoring the truths of His gospel to the earth in these latter-days. It was an unforgettable experience and brought us all closer as a family.

I was re-struck by the fact that there was so-much on-going persecution through-out Joseph's life and the lives of the early saints. And, that, (as Joseph stated), "the Lord isn't just building a temple, he is building US". There is purpose in trial as it helps to humble us, refine us and remind us of where to look to the Source of our strength. I was grateful for this renewed insight and reminder to me.

As we walked around Temple Square after the movie, the children were more reverant. I am grateful that they were able to feel the Spirit of the Lord as it teaches us, blesses us, and subdues us. It was their most memorable part of the trip.

On-Line Banking

2008-08-13T20:09:00.003-06:00

I'm blogging about on-line banking because it saves a lot of time and frustration! You can access your accounts at anytime and it's free at most financial institutions.

By doing on-line banking and bill paying you save time, energy, stamps, and trees.

On-line banking is almost instantaneous and you can access it from any computer anywhere. It's easy to keep track of account balances and expenditures. This is helpful for monthly checkbook balancing and during tax time.

Garden Give-Away

2008-08-11T18:57:00.002-06:00

We have a garden giveaway every week in our neighborhood. Those with excess items set them on K.S.'s front porch and those in need (gardenless, elderly etc.) can come and get whatever they need.

It's been a blessing to us as we only did a garden in buckets this year. Our crop has been sparse and the heat has burned many of the struggling plants. I haven't had the time to really give it the attention it needed as I've had a lot of other things on my platter that have taken precedence.

So, I'm extremely grateful for the hard work and efforts of others and hope that they will be blessed for their kindness and generosity. One of these days I'll be more in a position to give my garden items to others. For now, I hope that they will know of our gratitude and sincere appreciation!

Trees and Man

2008-08-07T13:13:00.003-06:00

Trees and Man

Good Timber does not grow with ease.
The stronger the winds, the tougher trees.
The further sky, the greater length,
The more the storm, the more the strength.
By sun and cold, by rain and snow,
In "trees or man" good timbers grow.

Where thickest stands the "Forest Growth",
We find the "Patriarchs" of both,
Who hold a converse with the stars,
Whose broken branches show the stars
Of many winds and much of strife.
This is the common law of life.

-author unknown

Moving

2008-08-05T16:31:00.003-06:00

We're moving. Well --- just upstairs. But, it's still a move!

This morning I had each child haul 20 loads either upstairs or to the car. We'll have to get a storage unit temporarily to store some things while we show this home.

We moved back to Cache Valley last year to help care for my parents and their home as they weren't able to do as much anymore. Mom has had diabetes for 40 yrs. and has had 3 back surgeries over the past few years. She has another ruptured disk and is in a lot of pain most of the time.

It's been a pleasure to help serve them, fix meals for them, be around them, and help care for their home and yard. They've collected things over the years and are now trying to figure out what they'll need for the next season of life.

Dad is willing to sell some of his tools -- which tells me that he really would like a change of lifestyle (that's a huge thing). He's worked hard in the home and in the yard but it's too much anymore. We're in a large log home on 2 acres. Weeds don't stop growing even if we want them too.

Mom would like to be closer to the other family members. She's a people-person with much love to offer and has missed being closer to her children and grandchildren.

As for me, I try to live simply anyway, but every move helps me realize that things collect and we need to downsize, yet, once again. It's a good thing to move every once-in-a-while. It's a way to de-junk, clean and make room for new times and new experiences.

Jan and Melissa

2008-08-04T08:23:00.006-06:00

Two of my dearest friends on earth are Jan and Melissa. I met them during one of my 8 moves (over the past 8 years) and know that the Lord truly had a hand in it. Melissa is in a wheelchair and Jan has had a very difficult marriage. They are both incredible and dear women who have experienced and suffered much yet who keep on working towards better days ahead.

We went to lunch a few months back and had one of the best times of our lives! We discussed feelings, insights, heartaches and strengthening truths. There were no walls and much of pure and heartfelt communication.

Though I don't see them often - each time I do it's like we begin where we left off, and the kindness, consideration and love towards each other is there.

I am so thankful for what they have taught me about life and faith and being of good cheer despite the trials and hardships, pain and grief. They have given me a view of what heaven will be like with our dearest friends and family. For that I will be forever grateful!

The Masks We Wear

2008-08-02T13:05:00.009-06:00

I recently ran into an old friend. She is someone that I loved dearly and felt close to for a time in the past. Perhaps time has erased the friendship or maybe I said or did something to hurt her. I couldn't seem to get past the mask that she was wearing. I felt sad. I was sad because I couldn't connect with her past a surfacy level. And, I was sad because friendships can only be as deep and meaningful as both parties are willing to let it.

Some people believe in the 'fake it until you make it' statement. I don't think that I do. It seems to me that being 'real' is the most healthy way all around. We acknowledge real feelings so that we can work through them to a better state of being. A very good book about that is called: Feelings Buried Alive Never Die.

I will always love this friend and admire her for the many things that she does and is. She works very hard, is funny, is smart, talented, thoughtful and very creative. But, I will also always be sad that it couldn't have been more sincere -- because we may never see each other again.

My cousin Karla wrote a beautiful poem about the masks that we wear. http://www.lessonsfromheaven.net/themask.htm It has given me a lot to think about!

I wonder what masks I wear and with which people that I wear them. We don't open up to everyone we meet (well, most of us don't) and trust and friendships take time to build. But, when we get past that and are truly 'real' we develop the closest of friendships and the most meaningful relationships.

What's in a name?

2008-07-31T12:47:00.002-06:00

Today I found another 'Heidi'. I was pleasantly suprised though I had wanted to get that name for myself. (My dear friend and neighbor, Christie, gave me the idea as she posted me under that name of her blog.) Unfortunately for me, this other gal got there first. But, her site is great and we share many of the same values and things to write about. I wondered if our personalities were similar since some of the things she wrote were also some of the same things that I write about and will write about in the future. She gave me something to be proud about and I was pleased and happy! And..... I didn't feel so badly anymore about not getting the name.

A few months back I did a last-name search on Ancestry.com. It was quite telling as my current last name (inherited from my ex-spouse) meant 'cruel'. It was really true. His line of the family has a lot of abuse and cruelty that has been passed down from the preceeding generation. I wondered how the name came to be and if everyone from that time had passed that trait along.

So, I'm grateful for my newfound 'friend' Heidi -- as she is faithful, trusts in the Lord, has a really great recipe for sweet and sour chicken posted on her site, a daughter with a broken bone (as my daughter has) and doesn't like spiders as much as I don't like them! :)
http://www.simplyheidi.com

Thanks, Christie, for the idea!
I think that your name must mean wonderful, hard-working, dedicated and ..... of good cheer!

Organizing with Prayer

2008-07-30T09:24:00.004-06:00

Prayer is the first step to organizing. Don't start a day without it. When we turn to the best Source we get help beyond our own.

We all have days where our lists of things-to-do outnumber our time and/or resources. On those days where we wake-up with many things on our platter and we don't know where to start, the best place is on our knees. There we can center our thoughts and ask for proper direction.

My prayer today was 'please help me to do the things that are needful for this day'. I asked a specific question and will follow the feelings and promptings that I receive throughout the day as I know that the Lord is mindful of me and my situation and will guide me to do what is the most important and necessary. This may including dropping items to visit with someone or hug a child.

Pizza Cutter uses

2008-07-28T13:11:00.002-06:00

We've found that a pizza cutter is the best thing to cut not only pizza but also french toast, pancakes, waffles etc. If you have children you need a pizza cutter. It's quick, easy, accessible and convenient. Save time in the kitchen; use a pizza cutter for things besides pizza!

Emotional Attachment to Things

2008-07-24T08:07:00.000-06:00

We all have items from our past that have emotional ties. Some ties are so strong that people can't or won't let go. Those items may actually be robbing them of future blessings, enjoyment and peace. If we don't let go of the past we may not be able to really experience the future.

If you're struggling with guilt for an item that you just can't part with consider these things:
Is it worth the pain it's causing you?
Would the person who gave it to you want you to be burdened by it?
The money that you paid for it is GONE. Keeping the item won't get that money back and may even be costing you more in time, energy and space.

One way to part peacefully is to take a photo of it -- so you'll still have the memory, and then....help it to find a better home! Someone else may need it, want it, or love it too! It's not worth exchanging part of your life for something that has outlived and outserved it's purpose.

Clutter Makes Everything Take Longer

2008-07-24T07:45:00.001-06:00

It's a fact that clutter makes everything take longer. It causes frustration, grief and even embarrasment. If our incomings are greater than our outgoings then weight will increase. (I was reminded of this lesson during a college nutrition class).

To save on time, energy, and stress: "de-clutter"! Start with one box, one shelf, one drawer, or one closet. Label 3 containers as garbage, donations, or put away. Start today and take one-bite out of the elephant. Then, give yourself credit for doing so. As the clutter decreases and the elephant shrinks, you'll start to feel the pounds lift and .... you'll really feel better!

Computer Cords

2008-07-23T18:36:00.000-06:00

There are several ways to hide unsightly TV and computer cords. If you've not gone wireless you may have 8-10 cords per computer. One trick is to use pony tail holders (I like the simple black ones) to wind the cords up as far as you can. You may then secure them to the underside of your table or back wall.

Several companies make bags for computer cables as well. You can place all the cords into one bag that is elastatized yet open at each end. It looks and feels nicer to have all cords in one area.

If you label each cord (masking tape works) it's easier to find the right one when you need it.

Keep it Simple

2008-07-22T14:54:00.001-06:00

My Dad told me to keep these short (and simple) ---- so I did!

Pioneer Trek

2008-07-21T16:26:00.000-06:00

My 14 yr. old daughter is going on a Pioneer Trek with other youth from our area. They will be retracing 17 miles of journey for the Mormon Pioneers who headed west to find religious freedom in the mid 1800's.

Along the journey they pulled handcarts filled with their essential items. They left their homes and many of their belongings to come to Zion where they could worship without persecution.

Our youth are to bring backpacks of less than 17 lbs. and pull and push handcarts along a dusty stretch of road that is rocky, rutty, uphill and hot. They will experience a little of what the Mormon Pioneers did.

They will be glad to have left non-essentials at home as the handcarts will be somewhat easier to pull with less weight inside.

We would do well to do the same. Our life's journey is easier if we have less to carry and if we've left non-essentials behind.

Watching T.V.

2008-07-17T10:47:00.000-06:00

"Watching" TV isn't just an idle thing. It really does affect us emotionally, mentally and spiritually. "You are what you eat" holds true for what we take into our minds as well.

There was a time where we allowed no T.V. in the house. It was actually a wonderful thing. There was much more peace and more time to do other activities together as a family. After the initial shock -- the kids went to work finding creative ways to spend their time. We went to the library often so the kids read more, we planned meals and cooked together, we visited museums and local sites of interest, played games, and walked and talked together. It was fun and fulfilling.

I'm not advocating no TV here -- though some of you prefer that. But, it is nice to take some time off from it when you feel your life spiralling out of control. It's wonderful to hear the sound of nothing so that you can regroup and listen to things of deeper import.

As part of 'Simplifying" both heart and home the question I'd ask about TV is the same one that applies to other 'stuff' in the home: Does it enhance my life? Do I love it? Does it make me a better person? Does it strengthen me? Is it wholesome? If not ---take the trash out!

Computer Problems....

2008-07-15T21:41:00.000-06:00

How did we ever live without computers? If you are reading this it is because you have a computer. When they work they are marvelous. When they are having problems it can be very stressful and frustrating.

My computer has been down for about 10 days. We were switching internet providers at the same time that my own computer was having some real issues. After several days of not having internet access I finally called a 'computer guy' to come out and help. He spent several hours fixing the issues and getting me up and running again. I'm extremely grateful for the things that he was able to do that I was not.

This incident has caused me to reflect, once again, on the way that simple things can bless our lives. Computers can streamline our efforts, save time and money, and help us to keep connected with others. If they function properly they are a tremendous blessing. If they have too much 'stuff' (including unwanted viruses and spyware) they can cause much grief and sorrow on our parts!

Bag Clips - Clothespins

2008-07-03T09:16:00.000-06:00

My favorite hint in the kitchen is with clothespins. I use them for every bread bag, opened cereal bag, chip bag etc. It's fast, easy and convenient. I keep a handful, or two, of them in my utensil drawer for easy access and use them daily. It saves much time re-tying the little wire strips that come with many food products and is very convenient.

To save space on shelves -- discard cereal boxes, roll top over and clasp with clothespins, place back on shelves. Cereal is easy to see and easy to access.

The 80/20 Rule

2008-07-01T10:54:00.000-06:00

The 80/20 rule is that we use 20% of our stuff 80% of the time. If we get rid of 80% of our items we will be fine 80% of the time.

Most people would be much better off with less stuff. They'd spend less time hunting for things, finding places to put things, dusting, cleaning, organizing, and storing their 'things'.

Kitchen Organization - Ice Cube Bins

2008-06-30T10:48:00.002-06:00

Ice Cube Containers (not trays - rather the bins that hold the ice after it is frozen) can be purchase from any discount store. They are usually white and 4-6" tall. They are wonderful for kitchen organization as you can place items such as cupcake liners, cake decorating tips, food coloring etc. into them and they take up less space than lazy susan's.

Label the front of the bin with it's contents and place it back into the cupboard. When you need items it is easy to bring the bin down, use what you need, and then return it to it's place on the shelf. Kitchen shelves and cupboards will look neater and items will be much easier to find.

Organizing Drawers

2008-06-28T10:36:00.000-06:00

Most drawers need drawer dividers to keep things in place, neat and organized. You can find drawer organizers at most any discount store. Ice cube containers (not ice cube trays but the 4-6" tall containers that hold the ice cubes once they are frozen) work well for sock and underwear drawers.

Utensil drawers need dividers to separate items as well. One hint is to purchase velcro strips or round velcro pieces and place them on all 4 corners under the tray. This will keep it from sliding back as you open the drawer.

Other recommended cleansers

2008-06-25T17:50:00.000-06:00

A few of you have submitted to me your favorite cleansers.

Both Bon Ami and BarKeepers Friend have been suggested several times.

From Christie:
"Growing up, my mother always used Bon Ami. It didn't scratch and did a great job. I use toilet cleaner too -- a mild one that I buy from Cache Chemical. (It smells like almond extract.)"

From Shauna:
"....try using BarKeepers Friend....Walmart for $1.47....best stuff ever! I use it everywhere on everything. Whitens everything too. It's similar to Bon Ami but it is the best for getting any kinds of marks off ceramic sinks, removing rust stains.... and it doesn't scratch or anything.....I use it on my nice stainless cookware."

Thanks for the great suggestions!
You're awesome!!!

Paperwork

2008-06-24T17:24:00.000-06:00

Paperwork is a problem for most of us. It often comes in faster than it goes out. I had a box of paperwork that I just couldn't seem to get to. One day I finally decided to take care of it. I purchased manilla file folders and laid them out on the table. I took the first paper from my box and decided where it needed to go -- so I labelled the manilla folder (boldly on the front) and then placed the paper in that folder. I proceeded to do that with the whole box. It took me the whole afternoon but was a tremendous burden lifted when done.

I was able to discard half of the pile as some of the things were events that had passed. Now, all things are in order and I can easily find them in my filing drawers.

Currently, I keep 4 stacking trays on my desk top. Each is labelled with it's contents such as:
To Do, Business, Finances, to File. In this way I have the needful things handy and as they are no longer needed I file them away.

Taxes -- what to file

2008-06-23T12:04:00.000-06:00

The thing that I have found to work best for taxes is a ready-made filing box (compatmentalized accordian style file folder) that is prelabelled. The labels are from automobile to education and financing to utilities. I save all my receipts and statements here. At tax time -- and throughout the year -- everything is easily retrievable from one place.

This can be used in addition to any on-line budgeting programs that you have or can be used by itself.

Keep your file box handy and file as you go. It takes only seconds and will save you hours in the end.

Clean the Bathtub

2008-06-21T12:55:00.000-06:00

The best way to clean a very dirty bathtub is with toilet cleaner. Turn on the fan and open all the windows as toilet cleaner is very toxic.

Pour an amount into the tub and spread it all around with a brush or hand scrubber. Let sit for several minutes and then scrub lightly as you wash it away.

If your tub isn't too dirty then you can go easy on the cleanser. I have liked Ajax and Comet in the past but am now turning to the new Green Clorox products. They work very well and are safer and much less toxic.

Garbages

2008-06-18T11:29:00.000-06:00

Place extra liners in the bottom of each garbage can. (I like the Ruffies brand from WalMart- they come in 4 different sizes). Place a whole roll in the bottom of the can if you'd like. Then, it's easy to quickly empty garbages around the home and you have replacement liners immediately ready.

Or, you may prefer to use grocery bags. That is a feasible option as well. Place several in the base of the garbage before you put the liner in. It makes it simpler on garbage day.

Laundry Stains and Soaps

2008-06-16T16:52:00.003-06:00

Have you ever heard of Fels Naptha Soap?
It is the very best thing I've ever found to get out stains. Wet the article and scrub the stain out.

Simplify your cleaning closet by getting a few bars of this hard, yellow-orange, time-tested soap.

I have found it to work on stubborn stains and even some stains that have already gone through the laundry process. It's been around for a long time and is one of the only things you'll need to have in your laundry area.

You may be able to find it at your local grocery store in the cleaning or laundry isle. If not, I'm attaching a site where you can purchase it for $ 1.74 per bar. (Bar Keepers Friend available here too!

http://www.soapsgonebuy.com/?Click=30779

Why Simplify?

2008-06-14T09:54:00.000-06:00

In a day and age where streamlining ought to lessen our loads --- there is much of stress and anxiety, anger and negative behavior. Much of this is because of the heaviness that we personally carry.

In order to change our homes (environments) we have to first change our hearts. Otherwise it's just a band-aid fix. To truly change our hearts we must learn truths. They lead us to be able to let-go of things that don't serve us well and place the rocks we've been unnecessarily carrying, along the road side.

My blog is entitled 'Simplify Heart And Home". I couldn't leave any of those words out if I wanted to truly express what my beliefs are about the whole package. A change of heart -- changes everything.

So, why Simplify?

If we are to be truly grounded and have a solid foundation we must clear the debris around us. As we do so we are able to see better possibilities for what we can become. We are able to make better plans, follow the Lead architect in projecting a beautiful structure, and build a house with a clean title.

Simplifying; letting-g0 of unnecessary and unneedful things, blesses our hearts, our bodies, our thoughts, our relationships and our homes. We are able to feel and see more clearly the things that truly matter and that will bring us lasting peace.

There is much of stress in this world. Evenso, we can be at peace in ourselves. We can be busily engaged in worthwhile things yet, unaffected by darts coming at us from all directions.

I recall one teacher who said that as we fill ourselves with light and truth -- and picture a perfect shield of light around us -- the darts from others, and from the darkness, have to bounce right off of us as there is no place for them to enter in.

It's a continual quest to do so.

My niece, Vanessa, is serving a mission for our church, in Germany. She has been there nearly a month. Her most recent correspondence to friends and family included this powerful reminder:

" I see posters every day for movies that do nothing but invite fear and bad thoughts into the minds of those who partake thereof. My goodness. If there`s anything you don`t need, it`s that. Trust me. Or if you can`t do that, ask Heavenly Father. Do things that bring light and truth into your life. Please don`t waste your precious time on things that do not bring you closer to Heavenly Father. Developing a closer relationship to our Heavenly Father is the most satisfying thing in the world."

Light and Dark both exsist. To deny that would be to deny truth. We must conscientiously make choices every day to keep the light in our lives or. . . to make room for it. We must make those same choices to not allow the darkness in. It is real and affects EVERY part of our selves (emotional and physical) our homes, our relationships, our work and duties. We can't escape the consequences of picking up one end of the stick. But, we can repent and change. It all starts with learning things of light (God is the source of all light) and then letting those things sink into our hearts to change us. What a blessing that it's almost never too late to do that!

A favorite scripture says:
"...And if it so be that the children of men keep the commandments of God he doth nourish them, and strengthen them, and provide means whereby they can accomplish the things which he has commanded them;

...And I will be your light in the wilderness; and I will prepare the way before you...wherefore, inasmuch as ye shall keep my commandments, ye shall be led towards the promised land: and ye shall know that it is by me that ye are led." (1 Nephi 17: vs. 3 and 13)

As we turn to the Source of all light and truth (whether people know and believe that for themselves yet or not) we are nourished, strengthened and provided for in the ways that we really need.

I know for myself that the Lord is my light in my wilderness and that He will continue to lead and guide me to a better place as I strive to obey His commandments, seek His light, and do what He would have me do. There is much peace and simplicity in that.

Frugality or Wastefulness

2008-06-10T19:46:00.000-06:00

I'm a single parent. That title has been the catalayst to my learning (at a much deeper level) about frugality.

My Grandma I. was very frugal. She grew up in the depression. She learned to save everything -- which included every rubber band and plastic bag. Most of the rest of us didn't have to live through such a time. Our society, as a whole, is very wasteful and has an over-abundance of 'stuff and things'.

Over the years I've given much thought to the excess that some people incur and the lack of others'.

I spent 18 months as a missionary in Mexico. There was much of poverty and hunger. Most of the roads were dust and many of the homes had dirt or cement floors.

On one occassion, and new to the area, I was asked to wash dishes at the home where we ate. I wasn't accustomed to retrieving water from the outside tap (shared with 4 families, several pigs, and some chickens) nor washing dishes in cold water in a large old bowl on an old table. I used too much of the powdered soap as I was trying to get things 'clean'. (I grew up with hot water and a dishwasher and was still trying to adjust to this new way.) But, as I look back, I wish that I had known differently. Oh, how I wish that I had understood how much each peso meant to them and how everything they had was a hard-earned and precious commodity. I think that they must have been disheartened by my excess and their lack-thereof.

In the neighborhoods that I have lived over my life time (including 8 moves in the last 8 years) I have really come to know the value of a dollar and the effort that must be part of our lives to be frugal and to live on less. Though we live in abundance as a society, there are many among us who struggle. And, many more in other parts of the world who would do almost anything for a good meal.

I wonder if we, in our excess, have forgotten, or never learned, what it is really like to suffer, struggle or go hungry. Do we ever think about the hardships of our neighbors as we continue to 'spend money for that which is of no worth'? (2 Nephi 9:51). If things break, do we simply throw them out? If we outgrow something, do we just get a new one? If the kids want something, do they easily get it? Is there any pride involved in our trying to 'keep up with the Jones' as they are also trying to keep up with others?

How are we doing with 2 Nephi 9:30? "But wo unto the rich, who are rich as to the things of the world. For because they are rich they despise the poor, and they persecute the meek and their hearts are upon their treasures; wherefore, their treasure is their god. And behold, their treasure shall perish with them also."

One of the greatest things about struggling, is learning to rely on a Higher Power for our sustenance. If we don't struggle, we may tend to rely on our own strength to get us by, thereby thinking that everything we have is because of our own work and not because of God's grace.

Difficult times are coming. We are in the midst of some of them already. Prophets have prophecied of many trials in the last days.

In October of 1998 President Hinckley stated: "So many of our people are living on the very edge of their incomes. In fact, some are living on borrowings. We have witnessed in recent weeks wide and fearsome swings in the markets of the world. The economy is a fragile thing. A stumble in the economy in Jakarta or Moscow can immediately affect the entire world. It can eventually reach down to each of us as individuals. There is a portent of stormy weather ahead to which we had better give heed".

http://www.lds.org/ldsorg/v/index.jsp?vgnextoid=2354fccf2b7db010VgnVCM1000004d82620aRCRD&locale=0&sourceId=cac5605ff590c010VgnVCM1000004d82620a____&hideNav=1

I believe that we would all do well to evaluate ourselves, our incomings and outgoings, our spiritual and financial standings and the desires of our hearts. A favorite scripture says "....if ye are prepared, ye shall not fear". This doesn't mean only financial.

As a single-parent I have had to give up much of worldly possessions and financial blessings in order to be a mother to my children. This was the most important thing to me and I was willing to sacrifice all -- for that cause. Though we've done without many things, we've also been blessed to have our basic needs met. I know that this is a blessing that has truly come from the Lord as he knows our desires and our willingness to try to serve Him and do the right things at the right times. Though it's not been easy -- it's been a blessing as we've had to pull-together as a family and rely on the Lord for all the things of which we've been in need.

Yes, it would surely be nice to be able to take a vacation- as many of the neighbors do. Yes, it would be nice to be able to afford a decent haircut now and then. Yes, it would be nice to not have to always shop at thrift stores -- though that has become sort of a fun adventure now and a humbling blessing. And, yes, it would be nice to not have to struggle so much to make ends meet. But..... would I change the things that we've learned from it all? No, not at all. We've truly come closer to Father above than we would have had we not had to turn to Him so very often.

My sincere prayer is that when times get better we will always remember Him still and remain as close as we are now. Or. . .we wouldn't want times to get better.

Aim of Education

2008-06-04T19:19:00.000-06:00

A great man once said that "The true aim of education is education of the heart".

If we don't become better people from the education that we gain then what real purpose does education serve? If it is only to 'earn' a living --- then, are we really 'living'?

Here are some quotes by Albert Einstein on learning and education.
They provide some good things to think about.

"Most teachers waste their time by asking questions which are intended to discover what a pupil does not know, whereas the true art of questioning has for its purpose to discover what the pupil knows or is capable of knowing."

"Never regard your study as a duty, but as the enviable opportunity to learn to know the liberating influence of beauty in the realm of the spirit for your own personal joy and to the profit of the community to which your later work belongs."

"The aim (of education) must be the training of independently acting and thinking individuals who, however, can see in the service to the community their highest life achievement."

"Teaching should be such that what is offered is perceived as a valuable gift and not as a hard duty."

"The only thing that interferes with my learning is my education."

"One had to cram all this stuff into one's mind for the examinations, whether one liked it or not. This coercion had such a deterring effect on me that, after I had passed the final examination, I found the consideration of any scientific problems distasteful to me for an entire year."

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I have some favorite 'good' books on education. They have helped me recover from some of my boxed-in thinking that came as a result of my lack of real education, though, at the time, I thought that I was getting one.

Dumbling Us Down
A Thomas Jefferson Education
Insult to Intelligence
Better Late Than Early
Smart Moves, Why Learning is not all in your head
The Teenage Liberation Handbook
Out of Harm's Way
Educating Zion

What a blessing it is that it's never too late to learn, to grow and progress, to enhance our thinking and to change our hearts. I truly believe that as we learn truths -- our hearts can change and .....that is what changes everything else.

Clean Your Closets

2008-06-02T15:14:00.000-06:00

Ask a woman to clean out her closet and you'll get a myriad of responses. Some are defensive, others downright protective and others' yet embarrased.

We tend to hang on to things that have an emotional tie. What outfit doesn't? Yet, where, amidst all of this, is reason? If you wore it in high school -- it's out of style and you probably wouldn't be caught dead wearing it now. If you wore it to Prom and are saving it for your daughter, you might want to think again. Not many teenagers want to wear styles from the 70's or 80'. Perhaps they want to make their own choices and their own memories.

If you are saving it until you lose weight -- you have already attached a negative emotion to it. You've attached it to weight gain and, then, when and if you lose the weight will you really want to wear it? Or, will you want something new to start afresh and reward yourself for a job well done?

I had a college roommate whose closet was filled with much of the clothing that she had in high school. It was outdated and she didn't wear it, but she was saving it just in case that she didn't have enough money in the future and had to wear it.

Once again, my belief is, that if we will let-go of things that are not serving us now, that are holding us in the past, and that are taking up precious space, that we will be blessed for doing so and .....provided for if the time comes that we need things again.

Many people hang on to things from the past. There are emotional ties and memories attached. But, what about the future. Could those same past things be keeping us IN the past -- and unable to move forward and appreciate the present and look forward to the future?

If you really have an item that is meaningful then save it. If you have a precious baby dress from a child -- display it on velvet in a beautiful shadow box on her wall. Or, get a special cedar box to store special items that are keepsakes.

Perhaps you store lots of shoes in your closet. Keep the ones that fit and donate the others to charity. There are people all over the world who have no shoes at all. Your donation may or may not reach them, but you will be giving something of yourself to someone else who needs it.

My parents live in a log home. Dad has some old farm tools that had been sitting in a box in his closet for many years. One day I came across them and said "these would be perfect on the wall". He now has his own space on one of the log walls, with some neat old pioneer tools that are also a great conversation piece with family and friends. They weren't junk and were meaningful.

It may be a treasure to you. Keep it if it is. But, remember the 5 questions: Do I love it?, Do I need it?, Do I want it?, Do I have a place for it?, Will something else do?

The Lord said "Where your treasure is, there will your heart be also".

As we carefully consider where our hearts are, try to place them on things that enhance our lives and remind us to be grateful for what we have then we will be better people and and our homes will be better places.

While we clean out our physical closets - perhaps we could consider how it could be symbolic in cleaning out our emotional closets.

Junk Mail ---- it's junk!

2008-05-28T15:06:00.000-06:00

If you call it "Junk Mail" -- then, why do you keep it around? It takes time to go through it. It makes you think that you might need something that you really don't -- since you didn't even know that it exsisted until you received the advertisement, and... it wastes paper and fills the landfill.

The best thing I've found to do is to find the number on the back of the flyer, call it and ask them to please take you off their mailing list. They will usually do so without incident.

If you've subscribed to paid magazines they may have sold your information to other companies. If that is the case then you may have several people to call. There is also some kind of national registry where you can ask to be removed from all mailing lists. I believe that you can get that information from the post office.

Either way, get rid of excess coming in to your home. Take control of what comes in. You only have one life and there are better things to do with your time. And, you'll have less garbage to take out on garbage day.

Clean the Kitchen -How many measuring cups do you need anyway?

2008-05-27T14:20:00.001-06:00

I remember the day that my older sister and I were helping Mom clean out her kitchen drawers and cupboards. After 40 yrs. of raising a family a person might tend to have a large collection of miscellaneous extraneous supplies.

When my sister asked my Mom "How many measuring cups do you really need?" I realized that many of us just have too many things that we don't really need or use anymore. The amount of space that it takes to store every little thing has our homes overflowing with stuff and things. Women say that they don't have enough room and home sizes are becoming larger and larger.

Garages, basements, closets and cupboards are filled with stuff. Storage units are popping up all over the country to store people's extra 'things'. If a person pays $68.00 a month for a storage unit -- that is $816.00 a year. That's nearly a house payment, several car payments, or a family vacation. That same amount of money put into a CD or Money Market account for several years could grow to be a mighty nice chuck for retirement years later.

We're often wasteful as a society (garbages and landfills are full) and we don't often subscribe to the old pioneer adage 'use it up, wear it out, make it do, or do without' as did our forefathers.

True, we live in an affluent society, but we don't know that it will always be that way. With gas prices rising, all other markets are affected. People are losing their homes because they've stretched themselves thin financially.

I believe that it starts with the small things. If we can live with one set of measuring cups -- or two if you are really into cooking -- then, perhaps, we could make do with one set of other things as well.

Go through your kitchen drawers and cupboards. Keep the knives, serving spoons, bowls, containers that you use and love. Discard the things that you haven't used for a while. Put seasonal items that you want to keep up high where you don't have to get to them often. Keep frequently used items where you can access them easily. Clear off the counter tops. Put things away in drawers or cupboards. Purchase racks that hang on the back of kitchen cupboards for more storage.

A clean countertop will actually make your kitchen look clean. Simplify the front of the refrigerator and put photos etc. into a binder. Take clutter off the windowsill and discard or store (a plant may be the exception).

A large wall-calendar hung in a convenient location gives the perfect place on which all family member may write their own appointments then discard the little reminder cards.

To store trinkets and specialty items -- purchase a bulletin board, shelf, curio cabinet etc. Display meaningful things for a time and then take a photo of them to place in a binder. Put the actual special item - if you feel that you really need to save them -- in a special treasure box in your closet or under your bed.

If you like the look of a clean refrigerator (as I do), consider a magnetic board for the kitchen or a nice pad or bulletin board where items can be placed. I like to have 'thoughts for the week' on my fridge that are neat and clean. They are right next to my wooden magnet that says 'Simplify'.

My Mom likes to have all her grandchildren's photos on her fridge. Do what works for you. But, the less clutter, the cleaner your home will look.

You don't have to be wealthy to have a nice looking place. Clutter will make even the wealthiest person look like a slob, and a trailer well-kept, is a place to be proud of.

De-Clutter Kids' Rooms

2008-05-24T14:03:00.000-06:00

Kids need to help de-clutter and clean their own spaces. If we do it all for them they will never learn how to let-go of things that have passed their season.

Early on I realized that my children faced the same issues that adults did in 'letting-go' of stuff. The phrase 'it's mine' was often heard in childhood quarrels. From the age of two, when a toddler begins to speak his first words, 'mine' is ofttimes one of the first. Some people never outgrow that! :)

For my children, I had to find something to exchange for what they were 'letting go' of.

As an adult you will feel rewarded with peace of mind, freedom of physical and emotional burdens, cleaner surroundings, financial freedom as you learn to live with 'less' (less truly is more) and time freed up to do things that matter more to you than clearing clutter and debris.

As a child I would ask them what they wanted. My son preferred money. I told him that I would give him $10.00 (and my daughters from time to time) to fill a box or laundry basket with the things in his room that he didn't need or want anymore. It was good incentive as he disgarded things that he didn't really want, need or like, in exchange for something he wanted more; cold, hard cash. :)

The girls, on the otherhand, wanted either a new outfit, a trip to the store to purchase ONE nice item -- in exchange for a full load of others, or.... sometimes, the cash.

This option has worked very well for over 10 years. My children have come to understand how to let-go of things, how to give to those who are less-fortunate, how to sell some particular items on e-bay or amazon.com, and how to free up their lives for things that they enjoy more than cleaning up all their stuff.

As a strong believer in 'we all have too much stuff', I believe that someday we will be held accountable to our Heavenly Father for the way in which we were stewards over earthly properties that He has given to us.

As we let-go of things that served their purpose, in exchange for things that matter more (peace, cleanliness, freedom, financial stability, time etc.) we'll have a whole new view on life.

A change of heart (from learning these kinds of truths) changes everything!!!

Spring Cleaning... physical and emotional........

2008-05-20T12:56:00.000-06:00

It that time of year again. Open the windows, let the fresh-air in, see the dust and notice all the clutter.
As with the weather -- we need time to refresh and renew. We need new life and renewed hope.

The first step in spring cleaning is to lighten our load. The less 'stuff' we have to take care of, the less time we'll spend in doing so. As we let-go of items which have passed their seasons, we make room for wonderful new things to come into our hearts and homes.

Find 4 containers (boxes, laundry baskets or garbage bags)

Label the first one: PUT AWAY ("A place for everything and everything in it's place.")
(Don't put it away until you have a home for it. And, don't put it away until the end of your de-cluttering session or you'll get sidetracked. Keep moving!)

Label the second: CHARITY (someone else may really need what you have)

Label the third: STORE (seasonal items that need a home)

Label the fourth: DISCARD (that's where the garbage bag will come in handy.)

Start in one room.
Pick up stuff off the floor, counters, closets and put it into the proper container.
Be willing to rid yourself of things that are no longer serving a good purpose for you. If you have an emotional attachment to it -- take a photo and then give the item to someone else who really needs it. (This blessing will come back to you.)

A weight will be lifted off your physical and emotional shoulders as you lighten your load. If it's stored somewhere physically -- it's also stored somewhere emotionally. As you let-it-go you will free up that part of your brain that has had to either keep track of it or worry about it at some point in time.

The less stuff we have the more free time we have for things that we truly love. We also free ourselves of chaos, clutter, stress, time spent in cleaning and organizing, and emotional burdens. We open ourselves -- just as the new spring flowers do, to receive light and warmth in new ways. Open your heart to listen, hear and feel. The rule of the universe is that there is 'enough and to spare'.

The statement: "Clutter makes everything take longer" is really true. Many hours are wasted in time spent looking for 'things'.

As humans is that we like to 'hoard' and gather and collect. We're like life-long squirrels storing not only for a winter's season, but for years and years of all seasons. Our cheeks are full, yet we keep gathering. We're downtrodden and overloaded, we can't even walk anymore, yet we keep storing.....

What we need to realize is -- is that there really is a time and place for everything. If we hold on to every item from every season in life then we can't enjoy the current one nor let it serve it's full purpose. We are not doing ourselves any favor by holding on to things that we don't really need. As we let-go we clear ourselves of things that are no longer needful and we open up our hearts to receive the beauties of new seasons.

Keep this list with you as you go through drawers, closets, cupboards etc. :

1. Do I REALLY NEED it?
2. Do I LOVE it?
3. Do I even WANT it?
4. Do I have room for it? (physically and emotionally?)
4. Could something else serve the same purpose?

You might not even like it but have been holding on to it.

As you let-go of things that you don't really need, love, want, or have room for, your life will change for the better. The physical weight of caring for it (dusting it, storing it, hiding it when company comes over, finding it, moving it, boxing it etc.) will be gone and you'll feel a tremendous relief emotionally as well. Free yourself from bondage and empower yourself to have control of the things around you.

Pray for help in letting-go.
Do this for your best higher good.
Be unselfish in sharing with those who are in need (you can get a tax-write off as well) and free youself from things have have served their purpose and are no longer a blessing in your life.

New things (not necessarily 'stuff' ) will enhance your life and nurture your growth.

Physical Spring Cleaning can be a catalyst for emotional letting-go as well. The two are intertwined. As you let go of one, it will help open you up to healing the other.

A change of heart -- changes everything!!!

Daily OM ----

2008-05-17T15:49:00.000-06:00

Do you know about the Daily OM?
Here's one that you might want to read.
http://www.dailyom.com/articles/2008/13751.html

They are short thoughts and perspectives that actually help us to simplify our lives, understand our circumstances and enlighten our minds. They are often timely and have nice and useful suggestions and insights. They are not always in complete alignment with my belief system and, at times, some have seemed very strange to me. But, as we each are entitled to discernment, you'll know if they are right for you or not. I wouldn't post this if I didn't think that the benefits outweighed the risks. Perhaps you'll want to read only a few, but, hopefully they'll give you something good to think about.

Cream of Celery Soup......

2008-05-16T15:43:00.000-06:00

The other day I opened the fridge to see what I was going to fix for lunch. The celery seemed to jump out at me and the thought of 'Cream of Celery Soup' sounded so good to me right then. So, though I had never made it before I found a recipe and decided to attempt it. After 15 minutes it was done and tasted wonderfully! My 12 yr. old son exclaimed "Mom, this is the Best soup I have ever had in my whole life!" So, here's the recipe. It's warm and yummy and.....simply homemade. (Nothing tastes better than homemade!!!)

Cream of Celery Soup

1 1/2 c. chicken broth
1/2 c. chopped onion
1 1/2 c. chopped celery
2 T. snipped parsley
1/2 t. dried basil, crushed

2 T. butter
2 T. flour
1/4 t. salt
few dashes pepper
1 c. milk

In a saucepan combine the broth, onion, celery and herbs (basil and parsley). Bring mixture to boil, then reduce hear; cover and simmer for about 15 min. Place mixture in blender or food processer for about 60 seconds -- until smooth. In the same sauce pan place 5 remaining ingredients and cook and stir until thickened. Add celery mixture and heat through. Enjoy!!!

Boys and basketball.......

2008-05-15T15:42:00.000-06:00

I have a 12 yr. old son. He's a normal boy who doesn't love to shower but he does 12 yr. old boy things like exercise and sweat.The sweet thing about him is that he likes to play basketball outside.....with me. I don't always have the time to do so, but am trying to remember to spend a lot of time with my children. Their childhood years do pass quickly and I can't ever regain this time again. A few weeks ago we made a make-shift basketball hoop out of a white laundry basket. The plastic was thick and difficult to cut but we finally got the job done. We tied it to a log beam above the garage and have spent hours shooting hoop together, playing 'pig' and 'horse' and spending enjoyable time together.As a single-parent I take my mothering responsibilities seriously - perhaps even more so than those in a two-parent home as I'm trying to fill in the gaps they miss by having a father around.

School Uniforms - South Cache Jr. High

2008-05-14T15:38:00.000-06:00

South Cache Middle School in Hyrum, Utah has determined not to have a new school dress code. They were going to have school uniforms to try to improve teenage behavior. The vote didn't have a 70% parental majority needed to pass. I think that's too bad. The new dress code was supported by the PTA and the school board. But, of course, many of the students didn't want it. They thought they'd lose their freedom of expression. Perhaps they would in that way, but, perhaps they'd learn to express it in new ways; maybe even educationally.My 14 yr. old daughter's school has a dress code and it's been a tremendous blessing. Some of the kids didn't want it at first, but now, they all seem to like it. It's been great for many reasons. 1. They don't have to try to figure out what to wear every day. 2. They are clean and modest and more respectful. 3. They don't compare clothes with others' nor feel as materialistic or worldly. 4. They act how they are dressed; more appropriately and more respectfully.I've heard arguments on both sides but have seen, first hand, the difference it has made for my 14 yr. old daughter. I believe that we do act how we are dressed. Think of sporting uniforms (team spirit etc.), think of formal occassions, think wedding attire, think Sunday Best, think suit and tie for business meetings, think casual Fridays etc. If we are what we eat --then, perhaps, we are what we wear as well.

Homemade Bread

2008-05-13T15:53:00.001-06:00

Everyone loves my Mom's Delicious homemade bread. Over the years she has made it for many friends, neighbors and family members. People actually ask for it. Yesterday, I had to run to Lowe's Home Improvement store. I was wearing my bread-cooking apron and the checker asked me if he could get the recipe for his wife. :)

So....here it is!!!

Mom's recipe for white bread --- sweet and light

3 c. warm water
2 T. yeast
1/2 c. sugar
Mix together and let yeast bubble

Add:1/2 c. oil
1 T. salt
1/2 c. powdered milk (dry)
Stir well until smooth.

Stir in 3 c. flour and beat until smooth. (egg beater works fine). Gradually add 5-6 more cups flour -- stirring well after each addition. When dough is unsticky enough to handle, pour onto floured surface and knead until smooth.Turn off oven; cover dough with towel and put in oven for 1 hr. Divide into 3 portions and put into 3 greased loaf pans. Let rise again until they look like loaves. Bake at 350 degrees for 35 minutes.